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Sex Games For Couples

Welcome to Pillow Play; a collection of fun sex and intimacy games for couples,

helping you learn new skills, spice up date nights, and have more fun in the bedroom.

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18 Sex & Intimacy Games to Play


15 Bonus Sex Education Videos 

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More pleasure, less pressure!

Pillow Play is a collection of 18 fun little sex and intimacy games, videos and date night activities for couples. Each game has been designed to help you improve your communication, deepen your connection, ignite your chemistry, and have more fun in the bedroom! It's all about more pleasure, and less pressure!

Reviews on our couples games:

"Honestly the best foreplay we've ever had!"

Over 150 happy couples

The games
whats included

Level 1: Desires & Boundaries

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Yes No Maybe Games

Practice asking for what your want & hear “yes, no or maybe”. Every couple should play these games at some point in their life!

Skill: Desires, boundaries and embodied consent

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May I kiss your nipple?

A perfect date night game, getting you kissing, touching, massaging and exploring new parts of each other!

Skill: Initiating sex, love languages & daily connection

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Brakes & Accelerator Quiz

A fun, quick fire Q&A game, helping you learn and talk about what turns each other on and off and how to initiate intimacy.

Skill: Increasing Libido, Sex Drive & Initiating Sex

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Traffic Light Game

Feathers and Stroking and Spanking - Oh My! A fun little game that lets you practice safe words - all while discovering what different sensations you both enjoy.

Skill: Limits, safe words, 
and trying new things

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Like that...but sexier!

Get playful and silly with dirty talk! Overcome your awkwardness and see how flirty, dirty and outrageous you each can get - with zero pressure.

Skill: Commiunication
and dirty talk

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Sexual Bucket List

Fill out your sexual bucket lists, identifying your desires, boundaries, & coming up with fun new ideas to try. 

Skill: Desires, boundaries and embodied consent

18 games going from mild to seriously spicy

What's included in the Pillow Play Sex Games collection?

For just $199, Pillow Play contains:


✅ 18 games to play with your partner

✅ Real life online video demos 
✅ Over 5 hours of sex education videos from a Sexologist
✅ 18 worksheets and PDFs

✅ Spicy date night ideas
✅ All content is yours for life!

Going from mild to seriously spicy, there are 18 games and activities in total. The games cover 3 levels:


  • Level 1: Desires and Boundaries  - learn what you each like and how to ask for it!

  • Level 2: Touch and Bodies  - learn all about your body and how to give amazing touch

  • Level 3: Erotic Exploring  - Deep dive into your erotic minds!

See a detailed list of the games and topics included above and in the FAQs below.

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What are the benefits of sex games for couples?

Couples that play together, stay together! According to the Gottman Institute, 85% of couples in therapy are missing their sense of fun and playfulness.   That’s why I created Pillow Play - to help more couples get back to pleasure instead of pressure in the bedroom.  When you play these games, you will feel confident:  ✅ Talking about sex ✅ Initiating sex and getting in the mood ✅ Giving and receiving an erotic massage ✅  Navigating different sex drives or mismatched libido ✅ Deepening your connection and chemistry ✅ Trying new things ✅ Talking about fantasies and dirty talk ✅ Getting undressed and being naked  ✅ Learning about pleasure anatomy and orgasms ✅ Knowing what turns you on (and your partner!) ✅ Communicating your desires & boundaries  ✅ Exploring kinks and tantra  ✅ How to increase your sex drive ✅ Asking for what you want in the bedroom And so much more!


Couples who play together stay together!

  • What are your services?
    - 1:1 sex coaching and sex counselling with individuals - Bespoke sex & intimacy couples programs and sex counselling for couples - Pillow Play - an online sex & intimacy course for couples - Regular online and in-person sex education workshops, talks and events - Private parties and hens parties - Collaborations and media opportunities - get in touch
  • What is a Somatic Sexologist?
    A Sexologist is somebody who has studied the science of sex; learning the anatomy, physiology, psychology, and cultural influences around sex, arousal, desire and pleasure. Somatics is any practice that develops and strengthens the mind-body connection. Somatic practices teach you how to mindfully scan and listen to your body. Somatic Sexology takes somatic practices and adapts them to teach people how to have better sex. As a Somatic Sexologist, I help people get out of their head, and into their bodies. A full list of my qualifications can be seen on my homepage.
  • Who do you work with?
    I offer an inclusive and judgment-free educational space for people of all genders, sexuality and identity. My work is LBGTQIA+ inclusive, and welcome people of all relationship structures, stages, and expressions. My coaching and counselling sessions and couples programs are always personalised to the unique person or people I am working with. My events are always tailored for a specific audience. The content and tone that would be suitable for a corporate consent seminar would be very different from an intimate hens party for example. My online course Pillow Play has been designed for couples wanting to improve their sexual skills and bring more connection, fun, novelty and chemistry into the bedroom. No matter what you're looking for, get in touch and we can curate the perfect experience.
  • Why do we need more sex education?
    Sexual wellness (including pleasure) is a human right, as defined by the World Health Organisation. When we have a healthy, happy sex life, it has been proven that our mental heath and physical health improves, along with our relationships. In addition, a consent aware, shame-free society that receives comprehensive sex education is also less likely to suffer from high rates of sexual violence, assault and abuse. It's time we saw sex and pleasure as a natural, normal, and healthy part of life. The sex education we received at school is not enough. Many adults know next to nothing about basic sex-ed, including pleasure anatomy, sexual communication, how to express consent, understanding arousal, orgasm and desire, navigating libido changes, and how to listen to their own bodies. This impacts our relationships and people don't know where to go for help. In addition, we still live in a conservative society where sexual shame is pervasive, and where many of us are still too embarrassed, fearful, or ashamed to talk about sex. In order to have a great sex life, we need to learn how to listen to our bodies, discover what we like, how to ask for it, and how to confidently give and receive pleasure. Sex coaching, sex counselling, sex therapy, couples counselling, relationship counselling, sex courses and sex-education workshops give people a safe, expert-led, and judgement-free space to explore and learn everything they need to achieve better sexual wellness.
  • What is sex coaching and sex counselling?
    No matter what you're curious about, sex coaching / sex counselling gives you an expert-led, judgement-free environment to learn and discover more about sex, relationships and pleasure. I combine mindfulness, coaching, education and counselling techniques to help you get out of your head, and into your body. It will give you practical exercises, tools and vocabulary to help you achieve your goals- what ever that means for you. My sessions are 100% client-led, meaning I tailor every session to the specific goals and desires of the individual or couple.
  • Are you open to media opportunities?
    Absolutely. For all media enquiries including talks, interviews and feature articles, please get in touch.
  • I already have great sex - what else could you teach me?
    Fantastic! It's great to hear you have a fulfilled sex life. The great news is, when it comes to sex and pleasure, there is always more to discover. And the more curious and open minded you are, the more opportunities for pleasure you will find. Whether that's learning how to explore a particular erotic fantasy, giving yourself stronger (or multiple) orgasms, learning more about your pleasure anatomy, or wanting to know where to find the best sex toys on the market, talking to an expert in a judgement-free environment might lead to more discoveries than you expected. Check out my programs and online course Pillow Play
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